Writing a Memorable Eulogy
 Writing and delivering a eulogy for a friend or loved one may be one of the most challenging things you are ever asked to do. Caught up in emotion and dealing with your own grief, there is the added difficulty that the time you have to complete the eulogy may be brief. These are not the best conditions for writing. Following a few simple guidelines will simplify the task and help you write a memorable eulogy.
- Keep the eulogy brief, within the 5 to 10 minute range. A long eulogy can put a strain on your listeners as well as on yourself. Your audience will pay more attention to a eulogy that doesn’t ramble and it will be easier to keep your emotions in check if you speak briefly.
- Don’t present a chronology of the deceased’s life. An effective eulogy should honor and commemorate the character of the deceased. Avoid listing accomplishments and events. Instead, describe the deceased’s best qualities and provide some anecdotes by way of illustration.
- The focus shouldn’t only be on your relationship with the deceased. Avoid telling too many stories that center on your experiences. Include other important people and relationships in your reflections on the life of the deceased.
- Be yourself. Speak honestly and in your own words about what will be most missed about the deceased.
- Above all, remember that a eulogy is a way to honor, commemorate and express love for the deceased. Make sure that your eulogy helps the spirit of the deceased live on in the memories of your listeners.
Catie W.
June 22, 2010
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